Tuesday, September 19, 2017

My father's daughter

Every girl first boyfriend is her father. The moment she came out to the world, she has one man who she trusts into which is, her father.  Every girl dreams to choose a boyfriend like her father.

But the irony isn't it when one man, who tries to get his self into one girl's life. But when the girl shows her true colour, he unable to accept all her flaws.

G: My father completely can handle me. Why wouldn't you?
B: I am not your father. 

So boy, what makes you think you deserve her? 

You aren't trying to understand her behaviour, her flaws, she likes and dislikes. Instead, you condemning her for being like this and that. Like a big sin to love a yellow colour, to love a white chocolate, to love eating at Haagen Dazs, to be a particular and detail person. She ain't doing something wrong at all, she just be herself (her actual behaviour, where she hides it) 

You won't able to see how different she is among the other girls if you are so busy to try to change her and condemn her for being herself. 

A relationship is not about you are trying hard to change your partner behaviour, instead, you are trying to accept her flaws, that what makes a successful relationship.

( I am not talking about the bad habits like smoking clubbing partying - all the HARAM things. This thing is so general, eh come one why you want to get mad when your girlfriend/boyfriend is so detailed? From her/his general behaviour, you can know how exactly she/he is when doing work. Details tu perangai yang bagus, sebagai contoh, percayalah rumah kau akan bebas dari habuk / sawang sebab detail sangat dalam kerja. Marah tanpa sebab yang relevant, kau pahal? )

I guess you don't love her so much like you claimed.

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