Saturday, September 23, 2017

Unusual

I watched a lot of Malay movies, dramas, short films, or even novels. I remembered one quote saying like this " Perempuan, silap orang mudah saja dia perasan. Silap dia, dia tak sedar pon. " 

Here it is, how about if it was a man who behaved like that instead of a woman? Yeah, I always wonder, if a man who made a mistake, they can just say " I am sorry. " And things going back to normal. Yes, maybe it is because of the woman behaviour, they can forgive someone they love easily. But, if a woman made a mistake and say "I am sorry. " You left that woman hanging like she made a big mistake.

I personally think it was okay if a man wants to sulk or to advise or to what so ever. But please don't forget, if compared to your mistakes, her mistake only 1% of your mistakes. Don't make things complicated. She is sorry, she has apologized, she is regretted. If she can forgive you for your big mistakes, why wouldn't you forgive her for her small mistakes? 

Reflect - back - how - you - treat - her. 

Fair enough? 

I. don't. think. so.

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